Am I The Asshole? My Partner Never Wants Sex

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation. Is there any way to meet in the middle? A self-professed "pillow princess" writes in, is she the asshole for wanting to receive pleasure – but not give it? Finally, they’re in a dead bedroom of 10 years. “She’s repulsed by my touch” he writes, but is he really asserting himself to make healthy changes? You decide For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE. . Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0	You can't be everything not in the bedroom.
0:05.0	The bedroom isn't a side note.
0:06.0	It's not like they're everything but they won't play pickleball with me.
0:10.0	Sex is the thing in the relationship that makes you connected and lovers, romantic partners.
0:17.0	Now if you're saying she's your everything, she's your best friend, but she's not going to be the one that is your sex partner, because that's what it's going. Well, then you need to
0:24.1	figure out how you're going to get your needs back, because it doesn't sound like she's meeting
0:27.1	your fundamental needs of sex. You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here
0:34.3	to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around
0:38.5	sex. You all loved our Am I the Asshole episode, so we are back with another one. From mismatch
0:43.6	libidos and sexless marriages to pillow princesses, producer Eric and I are letting you know
0:49.3	if you're approaching asshole territory or not, and not the good kind. Please rate and review Sex with Emily wherever you listen to the podcast.
0:56.6	It just helps get the podcast out to more people like you.
0:59.4	You can find us on all social media.
1:01.2	It is at Sex With Emily.
1:03.0	And don't forget to check out my new article.
1:05.3	10 reasons why a stroker beat your hand every time on sex withemly.com.
1:10.2	All right, everyone, enjoy this episode.
1:17.4	You ever wake up in the morning and feel personally attacked by the sun?
1:21.5	Like you just wanted five more minutes of sleep,
1:24.5	but your outdated blinds had other plans?
1:27.2	Yeah, me too.
1:28.4	Well, listen, it's 2025.
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