Hotline Calls: Can We Fix Our Chemistry?

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn’t pleasuring you as much as you’d like, does that mean they aren’t attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It’s a goal for many, but what if it’s happening more than you’d like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you’ve had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner’s got a kink that weirds you out? We don’t yuck anyone’s yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play. Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: The surprising truth about sexual compatibility—and why mismatched libidos aren’t the end of the road. Why squirting too much can actually be a turn-off (and how to control it if it’s becoming an issue). The best way to respond when your partner’s kink catches you off guard—without killing the mood. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0	You've been together for five years and I always think before you decide to leave a relationship,
0:07.3	make sure that you've done everything you can to see if it could work.
0:11.0	And that would include a healthier conversation with her about your sex life and trying
0:14.8	to remember the things that you did fall in up with when your sex life was great and trying
0:19.3	to have the conversation with her in
0:21.3	that spirit in the spirit of let's try to come together and find ways that this can work.
0:25.7	Let's see how we can be great lovers to each other.
0:27.9	Let's talk about some of our turn-ons and what's worked for us.
0:30.6	Let's try some new things to see if we are really compatible.
0:35.7	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:37.9	I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:43.0	around sex.
0:44.6	We're back with another hotline calls episode, and this one is juicy.
0:49.9	My producer, Erica and I discuss what to do if you're not comfortable with a partner's fantasies,
0:55.6	ridding yourself of any shame associated with squirting.
0:58.9	What it means if you keep comparing a partner to past relationships and how to talk to a partner
1:03.9	if they're afraid to touch you exactly how you want.
1:07.1	If you want to leave a voice with your question, please do call my hotline 559-5-9-825-5739.
1:15.7	You can also leave me your questions or message me at sexwithemly.com slash ask Emily.
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