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Am I The Asshole? Is It Cheating If We Were on a Break?

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.26.7K Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies How to work through ultimatums in relationships Why your sex life should evolve over time Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Nobody does selling better than Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0

You absolutely should be able to explore your fantasies and expand beyond vanilla sex.

0:08.4

And I want that for you.

0:10.2

And you will not last in a relationship where you are just lying there doing the same

0:14.4

thing over and over again.

0:15.6

And so I recommend you have a conversation with him that is more about your sex life together.

0:21.9

The sex life you're having while it's very satisfying and pleasurable in many ways, it's not enough for you because

0:28.4

for sex to be sustainable, it actually has to always evolve and change. You're listening to

0:36.0

Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure

0:40.5

and liberate the conversation around sex. I'm so happy you all love this segment as much as I do because it's

0:47.1

truly so much fun. So today, producer Eric and I are telling people if they're assholes or not

0:53.9

for hooking up with other people while on a break,

0:57.2

wanting your partner to be more kinky when they've been kinkier with previous partners,

1:01.2

wanting your partner to perform oral sex, and wanting their partner to put more effort into spicing up their sex life.

1:06.5

Please rate and review sex with Emily wherever you listen to the podcast.

1:09.5

It just helps get the podcast out to more people like you. You can find us on all social media. It is at Sex with Emily.

1:15.7

And don't forget to check out my new article, how to spring clean your sex life on sex with

1:20.8

Emily.com. All right, everyone, enjoy this episode.

1:32.9

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1:38.5

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1:48.4

And Just Thrive probiotic is the only probiotic clinically proven to arrive to your gut 100% alive.

1:55.0

So what that means for you?

1:56.7

Better digestion, healthy immunity, great energy, and easy weight management.

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