Welcome to Style Your Minds, the podcast for women who are ready to choose themselves, burn the rulebook, and blaze their own trail in life and in business.

For women who know they are meant for more, and have waited far too long for someone to give them the permission they thought they needed.

I'm your host, Cara Allwell, bestselling author and mentor to women entrepreneurs.

If you're ready to change the world, be inspired, and meet other incredible women on the same mission, you're in the right place. Let's do this.

Hi guys, welcome back to the show. I have a very exciting guest on today.

If you've been following me for the past couple of months on Instagram, even listening to the podcast, you know that I've been obsessed with talking about dating and relationship content.

And I have the ultimate expert here today on the show, Adele Keller, Adele is an expert dating coach for the modern world.

Through years of being a professional matchmaker, creating countless marriages and long-term relationships, plus decades of personal dating experiences, Adele has developed a personalized approach to coaching.

She focuses on identifying patterns, finding quality partners, uncovering your authentic needs, and how to establish a happy and healthy relationship.

It's time to find love you've been missing and miss Adele is going to help us do it today. Welcome.

Hi, oh, I'm so excited to be here. Thank you for having me.

Me too. Me too. I love your energy. You guys are going to you're in for a treat. You're going to love her so much. She's such a doll.

Okay, so I just want to like kick this off with you, giving us an introduction to who you are, but more importantly, how you found yourself as a dating coach. I think that's such an interesting path.

It is, and you know, if you would have told me when I went to college that I would end up in this world, I probably would have laughed in your face.

I went to school. I was convinced I knew what I was going to do. I went to school for PR. I worked in the entertainment industry. I worked with all the big studios.

I did that for so long. And then I realized that was not for me. I just the industry and I did not click in that way.

And I felt like I couldn't be my authentic self. And I struggled professionally trying to find what I wanted. I ended up working in corporate America and doing brand marketing for a Fortune 100 company.

In the meantime, as I'm doing all of this in these high demands jobs, I felt like I was a professional data. And I was working hard at that job.

I felt like I did all the things you are told as young girls or as women to do.

And I was constantly going out. I was constantly trying to go on dates and search for the right guy and go to events.

And I mean, it was exhausting. It was absolutely exhausting. And then somehow miraculously I got connected with someone who was a matchmaker and a dating coach.

And through her, that's how I met my husband. It was mind boggling to me, honestly, because here I am now with this amazing relationship.

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