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Subscribe, Eelie! Hey, this is Ali. I just wanted to get some tips on how to get a guy when he pretty much obviously is not into me are you able to help me out

Thanks sure can love you too Ali, look, back when I was into guys, um, and I maybe again, never say never.

So yeah, back then, um, I would quite often like find that they weren't into me because the types of guys

that I go for are like usually like timid and kind of shy guys and I can be really kind of intense and kind of red flaggy and they tend to run.

So I had to learn some pretty hard lessons on how to like get a guy when they're not into you.

So I'm pretty qualified.

Um, so yeah, your dilemma, um,

Ali made me think of this time when I was like I was hardcore crushing on this like librarian guy.

I know me in a library so off brand but like like who even knew they still existed right but the story was that I was at

uni and we had a library weirdly so me and Amber went there between classes to get like some content for our grams

and I wanted to do like a selfie shoot like in like one of those corridor like

aisles of books like with all the books on the shelves like

with me like looking all cash and like studious and like with the glasses on and

pigtails and like massive cleavage and just like looking at books and like opening

them up and being all like wow and how informative and who knew books for a thing like pointing at them and like

doing like confused face. So I was making um but take the shots and I'm suddenly like

grasping because like there's this really hot librarian guy like

sorting out the shelves or doing whatever they do. He was kind of like Eurasian but

had muscles like you wouldn't even know he was Asian and he had like the floppy hair and glasses and so like bookwormy and cure it.

And I waved at him and he kind of looked but ignored me and he seemed like he was really not into me.

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