We vow to be honest with each other if we're experiencing sexual attraction to others.

I know I know that spicy, you're probably thinking, whoa Emily that's pushing it too far.

I am not going to talk about that, but let's be honest.

It's going to happen.

There's going to be someone else you might be attracted to.

I know.

I'm not saying you're going to act on it, but why not acknowledge it?

And then you can work with it when it comes up.

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

Ah, weddings, they're so ceremonial, so floral.

After two years of post-pomance and cancellations, I or I weddings are back.

But are all those newlyweds talking about their sex life?

Well, they probably should be.

Married sex is full of tired, toxic cliches, and I'm personally ready to bust.

We don't have to settle for absence or boring sex as we grow old together.

We do not. So in today's episode, I'm making the case for writing your sex vows before you walk down the aisle,

helping you recreate honeymoon sex if you've been married for ages and giving you a lay of the land culturally speaking

on how we're thinking about sex and relationships now.

Plus, I take your questions how to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage

and how to bring the spark back when the spark was a little dim in the first place.

Intentions with Emily for each episode join me in sending an intention for the show.

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