Blind Down with Janet Cramer and Michael Possman and I have her video podcast.

Excited for our guests today because we have their book is...

Everybody fights.

Yeah.

So why not get better at it?

But it's interesting.

It's just, yeah, it's an overall like interesting topic because I had posted that thing on social

media, kind of like talking about, you know, how it can be hard at times and fights happen

and they stink. But, you know, I sometimes take photos to remember that even though in

that moment, it feels like the end of the world. It's not really, like once you get out of it.

But it's interesting because so many people have DMed me and said like, if you're so unhappy,

like why stay in your relationship. And I'm like, it has nothing to do with unhappiness.

Like, I may look unhappy at times, like, you know, because maybe we're fighting or,

but it's not a general unhappiness, general unhappiness. Does that make sense?

Yeah.

Like, I think if it's every day and more times than not, then yeah, like I think you need to look inside

and be like, am I really happy? Like, is this relationship serving me? Am I my best

version right now? You know, is it, is this a constant thing? But I think so many times,

you know, when we have arguments or disagreements, it can feel like the end of the world.

And it can feel, you know, for most of it, just like for me or, you know, it's very like,

I think it's one or the other. But I don't think it's like, I don't think I'm unhappy,

you know? Like, I know I'm not unhappy.

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