"Hitting The Reset Button on Life"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 24 June 2025
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Dana, a 31-year-old nurse, shares how her seemingly “on track” life slowly unraveled in a toxic marriage that took a toll on her mental and physical health, even causing heart palpitations. After facing manipulation, family drama, and feeling like a stranger in her own life, Dana hit rock bottom — but that moment became the start of her healing. She opens up about rediscovering herself through therapy, self-care, and leaning on her family, and how she’s now focused on rebuilding her independence and creating a life that actually feels good.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.7 | So my name's Dana. |
| 0:10.0 | I'm 31, almost 32. |
| 0:13.1 | I live in Connecticut. |
| 0:15.2 | And I'm just here to talk about my story of dating, marriage, and then divorce, which could be kind of difficult |
| 0:25.8 | at such like a young age. Yeah. Thank you for being here. I feel like this is one of those things |
| 0:32.7 | where it happens. Like being 31 and divorced happens, but it's not something that you hear about often. And I'm |
| 0:39.9 | sure it's something that when you were going through it, you had very few people to connect with, |
| 0:44.9 | to relate to because people don't talk about it. So thank you so much first and foremost for being here |
| 0:50.8 | and talking about it because it really does happen and you're definitely not alone in |
| 0:55.0 | what you went through. Yeah, and that's exactly why do you want to talk about it. I've noticed or |
| 1:01.2 | I've seen an experience like people coming up to me and just giving me their support and then |
| 1:08.1 | like also kind of sharing some stuff that they've been going through. |
| 1:11.8 | So it kind of was like an eye opener to see like how people may make you think like put on |
| 1:18.6 | this show and make you think one thing. But then deep down, you know, they really opened up. |
| 1:25.0 | It is something that's not really spoken about. And it is something difficult |
| 1:28.5 | at this age, especially when a lot of my friends now are either dating or getting engaged and |
| 1:34.9 | married. I've been in weddings in the past year or also like having babies. And then here I am |
| 1:41.2 | kind of doing like the opposite. Yeah, you're going back and not going dating, but you're not there yet even, right? |
| 1:48.8 | Right, right, exactly. |
| 1:55.2 | Okay, so take me back to the beginning. You met your ex-husband in your mid-20s? |
| 2:06.0 | Correct. Yeah. I was a nurse. I was in grad school to be a nurse practitioner living at home. He was in finance, also in grad school and living at home. |
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