The Fertia.

All right, Mo, let's play a game of healthy or toxic relationship.

That's exactly what we are doing.

And I thought this was a very interesting debate,

and I was curious as to what you guys would think.

So a friend of mine, well a really, really good friend of mine has another

best friend and he has a birthday coming up.

My friend has a birthday coming up and he was trying to

plan a trip to get like all of the guys in his life who are really good friends with him

to come on this trip. So there's one guy in particular who in this group is married.

Now this is interesting because I've always spoke about how when men typically get away from their marriages, at least in my experiences, and they get to

away from their marriages at least in my experiences and they get to speak openly

about their experiences being married,

there's usually some venting that takes place and there's things that they usually

like, there are things that they don't like so much and it is what it is.

This guy in particular is if I had to choose of all of the men I've ever known who speak about their marriages behind their marriages back

his man never has a bad thing to say like ever. who speak about their marriages, behind their marriages back,

his man never has a bad thing to say, like ever.

Like he handled it the way I as a man feel like I would want to

if I got married.

He wasn't, he never felt rushed into marriage.

He got married when he was older. He had it all out of his system. He knew this is exactly what he wanted.

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