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Some of you guys have the gear to be in an open relationship man there are a lot of landmines in that

This is one maybe I didn't see coming that when you're in an open relationship, if the woman in the marriage gets pregnant,

you can't be 100% sure it's yours.

Never thought about that it unless she's

supposedly using protection with the other person but still there's always that like

point one percent chance I don't know how some of you guys make this work I mean and I'm not judging you guys I just would not be capable of it like

knowing my wife was out there with another guy on a date doing who no no way I don't have that kind of maturity in me whatsoever or that kind of security in me.

It's you or me, but there cannot be a third, right? But in this case, yeah, he's not sure that he's the father or not.

So, Abby's got the email.

Hi, Bert Show, I'm in an odd situation

with my wife, and I need all the advice you can give.

My wife and I are high school sweethearts and have been married for a year.

Everything has been going well and we're even expecting our first child together.

I'm excited to be a new dad, but there's one thing lingering over me. A few years before we got married my wife

proposed the idea of an open relationship. At first I was against it but I

eventually signed off on it.

I needed a break in the bedroom if you know what I mean.

She was transparent and whoever she would hook about whoever she would hook up with.

There was one particular guy I knew she liked the most. Their casual

hookup started to turn into an emotional bond that I wasn't cool with. Because of

this, she cut him off. A month later, she told me she was expecting our first child.

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