Get it's the birth show quite obvious and we talked about it earlier this morning that when

dudes go on a vacation together go traveling together it's a lot different than when

women are traveling together.

Abby is going to be going to Ireland

with a whole bunch of her friends, women friends,

and she ran down this list earlier

of every, all precautions that she's taking as she's traveling with women and

mow had an instance over the weekend that happened to one of his guy friends that

if it happened to a woman they'd'd be freaking out. It was, the man disappeared for hours at a time,

and I didn't bat an eye.

I didn't think about it twice.

I knew he was somewhere fine,

just going through one of his moments again, but his moments are always unlike any other moment that I feel like anybody has ever heard.

So I have a friend, this is my dude. This man man is the party he's a wild card and it's always

going to be a great time whenever he is around so funny enough in having a

girlfriend for the past couple of years I've realized that one of the ways that my life has completely changed is any time there is a reason to celebrate me,

she's going to try to find a way to get everybody in my life to surprise me with a celebration. I hate

celebrations, I hate surprises, I hate it all. I don't like I don't like being the

center of a celebration. I don't know why, but it's her thing. I don't even think it's for me. I think it's

for her. I really do. But I'm okay with it. Now I feel bad for her because when she does try to do these things,

everybody has to be in on the lie right we all you all have to

protect the surprise and it didn't go that well this time around which is a whole

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