Higher Desire Wives
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 4 September 2019
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
About the Episode
Today we're talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you'll benefit from our conversation.
- Let's begin by defining "higher drive wives." Are these just wives who want an excessive amount of sex? What makes a wife higher drive or desire?
- The standard presumption is that husbands want sex more than their wives. Why has this message been so prevalent, and why do we need to change it?
- What are some reasons why husbands might have less sexual interest than their wives?
- What do you think lower interest spouses wish their higher desire spouses understood about their sexuality?
- Are higher desire wives represented anywhere in Scripture?
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From the Bible
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife" (1 Corinthians 7:3-4).
"Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion" (1 Corinthians 7:8-9).
"Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love" (Song of Songs 7:12).
"All night long on my bed I looked for the one my heart loves; I looked for him but did not find him. I will get up now and go about the city, through its streets and squares; I will search for the one my heart loves" (Song of Songs 3:1-2).
Resources
Episode 59: Myths We Learned from Pop Culture
"Dealing with a Low-Desire Husband," Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design, J. Parker
5 Truths for High-Drive Wives - Hot, Holy & Humorous
I Love My High Sex-Drive Sisters - OysterBed7
Q&A with J: When It Comes to Sex, My Husband Says I'm "Too Much" - Hot, Holy & Humorous
A Prayer for Higher-Drive Wives - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Q&A with J: What If Hubby Is Passive in the Bedroom - Hot, Holy & Humorous
High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots - Hot, Holy & Humorous
A Letter to the Low-Drive Husband - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Hot, Holy & Humorous HD, Facebook group for higher desire wives
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. |
| 0:12.1 | We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:16.0 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage? |
| 0:20.0 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:22.7 | I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife. |
| 0:24.9 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:27.7 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. |
| 0:44.4 | Well, we haven't even recorded and I'm already predicting this will be one of my favorite episodes. |
| 0:45.0 | Why? |
| 0:50.1 | Because we're talking about a subject near and dear to my heart, higher desire wives. |
| 0:54.4 | Whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, I think you'll benefit from today's conversation. So, hello ladies, let's begin by defining higher drive wives. Are these just |
| 1:01.5 | wives who want an excessive amount of sex? What makes a wife higher drive or higher desire? |
| 1:06.6 | It's just all relative. You know, if she wants sex more than her husband does, then she's a higher desire wife. And if she were married to a different man, she might be the one with a lower desire. She happens to have more sexual interest than he does. |
| 1:21.5 | Are we using the words desire and drive interchangeably? |
| 1:25.3 | I think that when I've thought about this, drive, interest, |
| 1:28.5 | and desire have all been words that I've used. And I know they're slightly different. What I |
| 1:33.8 | tend to hear from these wives is they call themselves higher drive wives. But I do think |
| 1:40.1 | drive is not always the best word. Drive to me is more, it says something more about your physical, |
| 1:46.9 | like what, you know, whether you have little sexy tingles in your nether regions, but desire |
| 1:51.7 | has to do with actually wanting to do something with all those tingles with your spouse. |
| 1:57.9 | You brought it up. What are your thoughts on that? Yeah, I just wondered. |
| 2:01.3 | They seem a little bit different to me, but not necessarily completely. |
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