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Heaven In Your Home

High & Low Libidos

Heaven In Your Home

Francie Winslow

God, Monogamy, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Christian, Marriage, Love, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Sex, Fidelity

4.9660 Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2023

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? 

What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent?

 

Today’s episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions.

 

Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore  let’s discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire. 

 

Let’s get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens.

 

Related Episodes:

Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens, Episode 3

Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, episode 136

Your Wonderful Female Body Series - Episode 104 to Episode 113

Great Sex Grows Series - Episode 119 to Episode 124

 

You’re Invited:

Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming 

a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, this is Francie. Welcome back to another episode. Today we are talking about high and low libido.

0:10.0

I'm offering you a new way to think about it, a different framework, and some updated information on your sexual response cycle.

0:18.1

So I'm hoping that today is a blessing. This conversation is in response to a lot of

0:23.3

questions that I get about this. And I'm praying that this conversation can meet you where you are.

0:28.8

Maybe you can share it with a friend or your husband and have some honest conversations about what

0:34.2

God might be showing you about a fuller picture of healing and integration and

0:38.7

celebration with this good gift.

0:40.5

So here you go.

0:41.7

Enjoy today's show.

0:43.6

Hello, everybody.

0:44.8

Welcome to the Heaven in Your Home podcast.

0:47.0

I'm Francie.

0:47.8

And today we are going to be talking about high and low drives.

0:53.0

I get this question all the time. It's one of the top questions that I get

0:57.7

from listeners. What if he has a higher drive than me and he has a lower drive when everyone

1:04.6

tells me that the man is supposed to have a higher drive or it also might be my husband's drive

1:09.8

is high and mine is low and I don't know what to do.

1:12.1

The reason I am talking about this today not only for one gender but for both is because

1:21.0

it happens in both and that is one of the pain points that many women feel is they believe that

1:27.1

they should have the higher,

1:29.5

the husband should have the higher drive and there's something wrong if he doesn't have a higher

1:34.1

drive and they have a higher drive. And it creates some insecurity and feelings of rejection

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