Get it the virtue real problem when sex drives don't match up. It's a real problem

You know stereotypically it's like oh dude what's not the time?

It won't give it to me

But every now and then we get emails from women going like non-another not just the opposite in my house

I hate Pam good morning. You're on the virtue

Good morning. Good morning. All right. So this is what you got going on here. He this man cannot keep up with you

He cannot

I give us the history here and then we're going to get you on with the professional

Um, sure so um my husband is my best friend we have been together for several years married for three and we have a six-month-old baby together

Um, we have kind of had this ongoing issue. It started out okay for the first year. I'd say it's pretty average

Um, but right after we got married we got married a year into dating um

He just

Quit he shut down. There was no piano playing going on maybe more than three to four times a month and

I have a much higher drive than he does and so um over the last few years

Um, countless times I've sat down and talked to him about it and

Have tried to have a rational conversation. So tried several different ways of communicating it with him

That's one of those things where it gets better for a week or two and then goes right back to how it was and I would say

You know, we've discussed love languages and that's kind of um, hi on my priority list of love languages

And it's at the bottom of his and I'm kind of stuck. I don't know what to do about it at this point

So Pam, I want to reiterate this is something that's been going on for years

So that it wasn't something that popped up when you got pregnant or had the baby

Correct. Yeah, actually it got better for a couple weeks after now

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