Get it the bird show. So I read this first part and I'm like that's awesome. Her husband wants to be a stay at home dad

But then I read the second sentence

But he only wants to be a stay at home dad if he can receive a salary to stay at home with their son

But and she's like no no you're not gonna be a stay at home dad if you're expecting me a salary. All right, um is it Alicia?

Yeah, hey welcome to the bird show. All right, so like I said I was like

Kind of pumped for you because your husband was

Wanting to be a stay at home dad, which I think is fantastic. I my husband's a stay at home dad

Yeah, I know that's why I'm excited to have your advice on you, but then he followed up

He wants a salary to do it

Yeah, pretty much. Yeah explain

Yeah, I just so we both work right now

And like I've been on the turn of the leave and it's about to end

Complaining to go back to work in a couple weeks and let me interject congratulations on your new bundle joy

Yeah, so thank you, but so I'm gonna go back to work and my job just

Makes more money than who does quite frankly. Yeah, and

We just haven't found any child care that we're happy with so you know as we

Established he was going to be the stay at home dad or hopefully still is

um, and he's the problem is he's supposed to be putting in this notice today and

We're having a fight because he wants me to agree to pay him a salary for taking care of the baby

um, and I feel like maybe it's because his sister he she just went through like a really brutal divorce and she was a stay at home mom and

Basically that situation left her with very little money, you know

So he might be like I don't know hopefully we're not gonna get a divorce, but maybe feels amass

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