The Bert show.

Is her husband right?

Then maybe she's checking out just a little bit.

Or she's feeling like, no, I am just doing what I need to do for the health of everybody in this family.

Cassie.

I need advice for once. I don't know the answer. everybody in this family. Cassie.

I need advice for once.

I don't know the answer, shocker.

My husband and I had a good heart to heart

where he told me he feels like I am checked out from the family when I get home, which hurt me a lot to my core.

And I told him that because I feel like everything I do is for the family.

And we are just not seeing eye to eye and there's a disconnect now and I can

give it to him like he is he's definitely on to something but it's not on purpose

so here let me break it down for you. I work during the day, I pick up my

kid from daycare and I had home and when I was getting home my husband's there with

our son because he'll work from home in the afternoon sometimes if he has consulting stuff,

but he's primarily a stay-at-home dad, which is a really important job and they tell him that

allows me to do these things at work because he's, you know, taking care of the the kids so when I get home then I jump

into action to pick up my part of the slack for keeping the house because I don't

think it all falls on the stay-at-home parents shoulders it's supposed to be split between equal partners like I work he looks after the kids we look after the house together and then the kids later on obviously

So when I get home I see all the dishes stacked up that

need to be done that weren't able to be gotten to in the morning because he's

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