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Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Helping Our Kids Foster Friendships :: David Thomas and Sissy Goff [Ep 338]

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Education, Leisure, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.92.3K Ratings

🗓️ 20 September 2021

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

I’m excited to welcome back Sissy Goff and David Thomas to the show to talk about helping our kids foster friendships.  As licensed counselors, working at DayStar Counseling Center in Nashville, they provide support, encouragement & compassion to children, adolescents & families in need through counseling.

We talk about the nuances of boys vs girls in friendships, what to do if your kid is the bully, helping kids when friendships change or friends move, and how to take cues from our kids when it comes to their friendships

“It is really more important to prioritize teaching kids to be friends than to be concerned with them, having friends. And when it comes to our worries and fears about friendships, we can't have more emotion than they do over whatever's going on for them relationally. Often that will make them either feel like we're not safe to talk to, or it'll just make them dam up these feelings.”

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey y'all, welcome back to the Don't Mom Alarm Podcast.

0:11.4

I am your host Heather McFadden and this is the place where I get to walk alongside

0:17.1

you and connect you to people and resources so you know that you don't mom alone.

0:23.8

And in this episode, number 338, we get to welcome back.

0:29.8

Our favorite Nashville counselors, David Thomas and Sissy Gough to help us help our kids

0:38.4

find their people.

0:41.0

I would say on the flip side of losing friends or losing a friend who may have moved or

0:48.1

relocated, as painful as that's going to be to watch and where that may create some

0:52.4

hesitancy or even as you shared resistance, use that as opportunity.

0:57.2

I mean, I think one of the greater task of parenting is preparing our kids to navigate

1:01.9

loss, loss of all kinds, you know, that is inevitable this side of heaven.

1:06.8

And so though none of us would script that into the kids we love stories, we have to

1:12.8

be about the work of preparing them for loss.

1:15.4

Loss of friendships, loss of relationships, loss of jobs, loss of people we love in this

1:19.7

world because that loss is universal.

1:23.2

It's a universal human experience that none of us can get around.

1:27.5

And so I would take advantage of that and just even helping kids develop more of a connection

1:34.0

emotionally to what's going on that may be affecting what's going on socially.

1:39.0

David and Sissy have each been on the show twice individually and once together.

1:44.7

And so we need to have them come back.

1:46.5

And this topic, y'all, after I recorded it, I couldn't stop talking about it with my

1:52.0

real life friends.

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