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Awesome Marriage Podcast

Help! My Spouse’s Coworker Is a Problem Ep. 687

Awesome Marriage Podcast

Dr. Kim Kimberling

Marriage, Awesomemarriagepodcast, Marriagepodcast, Awesomemarriage, Marriageadvice, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Christianmarriage, Christianity

4.9802 Ratings

🗓️ 22 July 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Dr. Kim opens up about how workplace relationships, especially dealing with negative and/or flirtatious coworkers, can impact marriage. He encourages couples to recognize these concerns, lean on biblical truth, and take intentional, practical steps to protect and strengthen their relationship. This episode reminds us of the power of open communication, the importance of setting healthy boundaries, and the hope we can find in trusting God through every season of marriage.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Concern about coworkers is a valid issue in marriages.

  • Bad company can corrupt good character, as warned in scripture.

  • It's essential to communicate concerns with love and honesty.

  • Praying for wisdom and protection is crucial in navigating these situations.

  • Strengthening the marriage bond is the best defense against outside influences.

  • Being a positive influence in your spouse's life can counteract negative coworkers.

  • Setting healthy boundaries for workplace relationships is necessary.

  • Knowing when to step back and trust God is important.

  • Focus on building a positive atmosphere at home.

  • Each person is responsible for their own choices before God.

  • 24/7 365 Foreplay

 

Quotes from this Episode:

Walk with the wise and become wise.

The company we keep matters.

Addressing the situation requires discernment not knee jerk reactions.

Even in marriage, where two become one flesh, each person remains an individual.

A spouse is to be respected.

Communicate with love and honesty.

Sometimes the most effective communication comes through questions rather than direct confrontation.

The most important thing Nancy and I have done in our marriage is prayer daily.

Be that uplifting thing that your spouse needs. 

Know when to step back. 

Anytime we are in a situation where we could compromise our relationship with our spouse we have to run. 

Workplace relationships are significant but they aren’t all powerful.

 

Couple's Conversation Guide:

  1. Are there relationships at your workplace that are taking time or emotional energy away from your connection with your spouse? How can you set healthy boundaries?

  2. Do any coworkers influence your attitudes or behaviors in ways that conflict with the values you and your spouse have established for your marriage and home?

  3. How can your faith guide you in responding to difficult or questionable coworkers while maintaining peace and integrity?

  4. What steps can you take to protect your marriage from workplace stress and distractions, ensuring your spouse remains your first priority?

 

Mentioned in this Episode:

  • Find Dr. Kim on Instagram

  • If you strengthen your marriage at home, the affects of work will lessen! Keeping marriage fun means date night can’t be boring. Check out our Date Night Boosters. Reignite the fun and intimacy in your date nights with your spouse.

  • Awesome Marriage swag is now LIVE! Grab a gift for you, your spouse or another couple. There’s something for everyone. 

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the loss of marriage podcast, where we're dedicated to building stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships.

0:13.6

I'm your host, Dr. Kim Kimmerling, and I've been counseling couples for 40 years and married to my amazing life fancy for 55 years.

0:20.0

Our goal is to help your marriage thrive.

0:21.6

We exist to help hurting marriages heal.

0:24.6

Healthy marriages grow in families, stay together.

0:27.6

Each week we bring you practical tips, expert insights, and real stories from couples who are making their marriage is truly awesome.

0:35.6

So whether you're nearlyit, celebrating decades together,

0:38.5

or anywhere in between, you're in the right place to take your marriage from good to awesome.

0:43.3

So thanks for joining us today. Let's dive you on.

0:51.0

So you're tired of going on the same old boring dates?

0:55.0

You know, when you first started dating your spouse, it felt effortless to connect, to laugh, to flirt, and to have fun.

0:59.8

But now, well, the fun excitement isn't always there.

1:03.7

You go to a restaurant? Check.

1:05.4

You talk about the same stuff? Check.

1:07.8

You head home and in the night on your phones.

1:10.4

Check. So what if you could elevate your date

1:12.9

nights with better conversations, more fun, and hotter intimacy? Well, that's why we've created

1:18.1

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1:25.1

This kit does the planning for you. It includes four conversation guides,

1:30.4

four fun store games, and four steamy afterdate foreplay ideas. The digital resources

1:37.3

fade at $20, but you can get it today for your donation of any amount to the ministry of

1:42.7

Awesome Marriage. To grab this resource, check out awesomemarries.com.

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