Help – I’ve Messed up Playing “Hard to Get!”

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2016

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

How do you keep a guy’s interest when you really like him? Do you make him wait for a kiss until after the first date? Hold off on intimacy for as long as possible to show him you’re “not that kind of girl?” Some women think so… until they have a moment of weakness (aka attraction), and break their game of “hard to get.” Then they panic – will he still want me now? In today’s LOVELife, I’ll tell you exactly what I think of playing “Hard to Get,” explain the danger of creating a rule that’s not reality, and give you a script you can use to pump the breaks and reclaim your standard for intimacy while still building attraction.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Matthew Hussey, welcome to Love Life.
0:05.6	It's a privilege to be able to offer you bite-sized bits of advice on this podcast that you
0:10.4	can use every day.
0:12.2	But what if you're ready for a big transformation and you want to do it now?
0:16.2	You want to reinvent your career or finally find lasting love or break free from the self-doubt
0:21.4	that's holding you back from living the abundant life you were meant to live.
0:25.5	If you're saying yes, Matt, that's me.
0:27.4	I'm going to tell you exactly how to do just that at the end of today's show.
0:31.7	So make sure you stay tuned.
0:33.4	First, let's get to today's episode.
0:39.9	We have a caller online today.
0:41.9	I believe that caller's name is Carleen.
0:44.6	Tell us Carleen, what's your question?
0:46.4	Yeah, I just have a quick question because, you know, I've been playing hard to get for
0:51.6	so long and it's not working out for me.
0:55.6	I've been single for three years and finally I've met this guy that I really like.
1:00.9	So we had a date last Saturday, but I think I did it the wrong way we made out and I'm
1:09.0	just worried how am I going to maintain the interest level after that because I felt
1:15.8	like after that it's the interest level went down.
1:19.4	What do you normally do when you play hard to get?
1:21.0	When you say you've been playing hard to get for a long time, what does that mean?
1:24.0	Yeah, I don't text them.
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