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Awesome Marriage Podcast

Heart Rehab with Jerry Flowers: Breaking Patterns, Building Disciplines and Finding Your True Self

Awesome Marriage Podcast

Dr. Kim Kimberling

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Christianity

4.9 • 802 Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

This is such an incredible conversation to wrap up our Fridays in the Fall, Wider Lens series. Jerry Flowers is bringing encouragement about the patterns of your life and posture of your heart as we talk through his new book Heart Rehab: Finding the You God Created You to Be. Lean into the discomfort, create disciplines for preparedness, and surrender your need for control in order to step into your true calling as a son or daughter of the Lord Almighty. He loves you, he is for you, and we can trust him with our hearts!

 

Episode Highlights:

Stop blaming everyone else. Take time for self reflection. 

If we invite God in, He can use all seasons for our good and growth.

Intimacy with the Lord allows us to grow into the people God created us to be. 

Discipline and preparation go hand in hand. The more disciplined you are, the more prepared you are for what God has next. 

Culture influences us to mislabel our fears, thoughts and anxieties. Make sure you are labeling them correctly.

Strong core beliefs help us combat the lies of society and satan.



Quotes from Today's Episode:

I recognize many times, our placement in life isn't just because of problems, it's because of patterns. -Jerry Flowers

Patterns reveal character. -Jerry Flowers

Patterns are one of the ushers to certain seasons. -Jerry Flowers

We want to blame the enemy, but we have to look at ourselves too. -Jerry Flowers

Be aware of the enemy, for sure. But I think sometimes that keeps us from taking responsibility for our part. -Jerry Flowers

It may not make sense right then, but later it'll make sense. -Jerry Flowers

I see things that God put me through, before we got married, that helped me when I got married. -Dr. Kim

We want to be whole enough where the Lord can pour into us and we can pour back out.- Jerry Flowers

If you want results, you lean into discomfort.- Jerry Flowers

What changed for me is realizing that my mind can lie to me. -Jerry Flowers



A Wider Lens: Questions for Self Reflection

  1. Look at your daily life and identify one unhealthy pattern you've grown comfortable with.

  2. What one discipline could you start practicing to combat this pattern and prepare for what God has next?

  3. Identify an area of your life you haven't fully surrendered to the Lord. Choose a Scripture verse to meditate on as you commit to trusting Him completely.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This generation is obsessed with removing blemishes, right?

0:05.0

Yeah.

0:06.0

But it's our blemishes that actually validate our authenticity, you know?

0:09.0

Amen.

0:10.0

So when you're like, oh, I got to move this stretch mark, got to remove this wrinkle, got to,

0:15.0

our blemishes reveal our authenticity.

0:17.0

And so now we have so many people trying to get surgeries because they have not become content with the youth that God originally created for them to be.

0:26.1

Welcome to the fourth podcast in our wider lens series. My special guest today is Jerry Flowers Jr.

0:31.6

Jerry and his wife, Tanisha, are the founders of Redefined TV. He has had numerous videos that have gone viral in four cross-country

0:39.3

tours. Jerry is based at Newston, Texas. His new book, Heart Rehab, Finding the You God

0:44.8

Created You to Be releases in October. I am so excited for you to meet Jerry, so let's go

0:49.5

the studio right now. Money issues destroying your marriage. Stop fighting about finances and start building

0:55.5

wealth together. Take Sensei's free class. The four budgeting mistakes most couples make and how to

1:00.7

fix them. Piblical, proven system that works for couples. Sign up at the link in our show notes.

1:06.8

Jerry, I'm so excited to welcome you to our wider lens on awesome marriage podcast. I've been following you. I think you're awesome. And so it's so good to meet you and have you be a part of this with me today. I'm honored to be here and I can't wait to go through this journey with you as well. Absolutely. Absolutely. Well, you and Tunisia have been married? How long? 13 years in July. 13 years. Wow. Congratulations. Absolutely. You and Tunisia have been married. How long?

1:35.0

13 years in July. 13 years. Wow. Congratulations. Thank you. That's awesome. And you have four kids. Is that right?

1:36.6

Three. Don't speak that on us.

1:40.1

Okay. Three. Three. Three is enough.

1:48.7

Well, I'm excited about the new book, Heart Rehab, Finding the You, the You God Created You to Be.

1:54.9

I love that title because as a counselor, I tell people that all the time, let's figure out who God created you to be.

1:59.7

And when you get there, life couldn't get much better than that in this world.

2:00.6

Absolutely.

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