Hey, it's your girl, simply Shanika, and you are now listening to The Goddess Confessions. The goddess confessions. Good morning.

Yesterday was my birthday and I couldn't feel even more alive.

Thank you for everyone that wished me a happy birthday.

It has been an amazing transition is what I'll say. But something woke me up this morning and it prompted me to

go pop my phone and record this for you guys and that is healing and fixing your relationships

with the people that you love. Now I know for some people they might say well I'm not fixing

no relationship with nobody because they did this to me and they did that for me and I'm not doing this and I'm not doing that.

You know that's absolutely okay if that's where you are currently in your

journey at least you can recognize that maybe you're not ready to

heal that relationship yet, but if you are, sometimes you have to be the bigger person and step up and do it.

Not for them, not for anybody else or for yourself. As I've talked about so many times,

healing yourself is the most important thing in order for you to transition to the next phase that you want to be in.

And one of those things is healing relationships that may have hurt you or

situations that may have disappointed you. You know, there's nothing that we can do

about what has happened, what we can change, is what we're going to do moving forward. Now the reason I thought about

this is because I was thinking about relationships in my own personal life,

ones that I've had and I may have been disappointed so I

cut those people out of my life and I am quick to do that so don't get

twisted what I'm saying right now.

So when I say that you need to heal those relationships,

you have two options in my eyes.

You can fix the relationships and get back to being around the people that you love

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