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Healed Men Heal Others | Sammy Perez 474

Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

5 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 23 June 2025

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

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What if the thing that nearly destroyed you… became the thing God used to heal others?

In this raw and redemptive episode, Jerrad sits down with Sammy Perez, a man who grew up without a dad, entered the system at age 8, and spent much of his early life in prison. But that’s not where the story ends. Through a prison cellmate, an unexpected visitation, and the unlikely love of a spiritual father, Sammy’s life was completely turned around.

Together, they talk about father wounds, the ache for belonging, how prison both broke and saved him, and the long road to healing as a man and dad. Sammy shares the tear-filled moment he gave his life to Jesus behind bars, the first time he saw his son through glass, and how God turned his pain into purpose.

This is one of the most powerful stories we’ve ever told.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why boys without dads often become men without direction
  • How shame disconnects us from our story and how healing reconnects us
  • The surprising moment Sammy met his son for the first time
  • What it looks like to father when you were never fathered
  • How a consistent man named Terry changed everything
  • Why God’s love can rewire even the hardest hearts
  • The full-circle moment that brought Sammy back into prisons… this time with purpose

Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Prison Fellowship’s Angel Tree Program
  • Sammy’s work helping former prisoners reintegrate into society
  • The story of Clarence; the cellmate who wouldn’t stop asking Sammy if he wanted to know Jesus
  • Jerrad’s teaching on 2 Kings 6 and the power of new perspective

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, before we jump in, let me rattle off three really quick announcements for you. First of all,

0:03.9

if you are listening to this podcast, I highly recommend that you watch it. It's a much more full

0:07.9

experience by watching the podcast interview. You can do that by subscribing on YouTube. I have

0:12.9

a link here in the show notes. You can just click that. Again, you'll get so much more out of the

0:17.1

interview by watching it. Click the YouTube link. Make sure you subscribe over there, and you can watch it there for a more full experience.

0:24.0

Number two, if you have not signed up for our Dadtied retreat, it is almost coming to a close,

0:28.6

so make sure that you sign up for that by going to Dadtire.com.

0:31.3

And number three, when you are at Dadtire.com, you can see that we are starting up our

0:35.7

one-day conferences again. We do these all over the country and even the world.

0:39.1

If you're a church leader or volunteer or pastor and you want to bring the dad-tired ministry

0:43.6

to your church so that the guys at your church can find the healing that they need, go to daddattire.com.

0:49.2

Click the conferences tab.

0:50.5

That being said, let's dive into today's episode.

0:52.9

Not to like dive in too deep too quickly

0:54.7

here but what what's your relationship with your dad like yeah so actually uh don't have a

1:01.3

relationship with my father so he he passed away probably about gosh eight years ago now um but even

1:08.2

before then there was the relationship was non-existent.

1:11.4

So I actually, he, he left us around two when I was two.

1:17.6

And I've got two memories of him since then, and neither of them is very good.

1:23.8

He was very abusive, struggle with alcoholism.

1:27.4

So, so, so, yeah, so, uh, yeah, grew up without knowing, um, the, anything really about a father.

1:35.6

You know, I think it's when you survive, you sort of just bury it, you know,

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