What do you want? Not family, not friends, not society at large, you. What do you want and how do you want it?

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Sometimes attraction takes time. Here, you don't have to make a

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field on the App store or Google Play.

Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, and those who don't identify as either, you are listening to Ratchet and Respectable.

Man, I should have recorded this episode way earlier in the day because there's so much stuff that we have to like kiki and clown about.

And I'm going to do my best when we get to those portions.

But my anxiety is through the roof right now.

I'm recording this at 624 on Tuesday. I should have recorded this.

I've been up since the crack of dawn. I should have recorded this morning when I was like

fresh and in good spirit. Today is election day for very important races in New York City.

Zorn Mondami versus Cuomo. There's another guy running.

Nobody's paying any attention to him.

This governor's race in Virginia and also the governor's race in New Jersey.

I am just on pins and needles.

I really, really hope that people with good sense turned out to vote.

So much is riding on these elections. I don't need to explain to you

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