Hello, welcome back to self-care and cheer up Maui. Today we're going to become a narcissist.

Welcome back everybody. My son begged me to be a part of the podcast, so I let him do the intro and he did a pretty good job.

I think it's safe to say that it just runs in a family.

Even though he probably doesn't know what the noteworthy narcissist mean, that is today's topic. Today I feel like this is the main question that I get all the time.

How to heal from a narcissist? I'm dealing with a narcissist. I'm in a relationship with a narcissist. All I attract is narcissists.

Outside of the fact that I truly believe the word is like super overused, like the word toxic because I doubt that you guys are sending these people to therapy and

getting them diagnosed. I know that we are doing a lot of self-diagnosis in these days.

But nonetheless, I'm going to cut you guys up on some things that have been going on in my life.

The dog is getting better. Okay, I know I told you all that the dog was peeing and pooping on my carpet.

The dog is getting a little bit better. He's finally going on his pipettes inside of the bathroom.

Thank God because the dog was about to be on his way out the goddamn door because my boyfriend spoils him.

And my son spoils him also. My grandma is back on the blacklist because she caused my phone with drama.

So is my mom. My mom is back on the blacklist because she keeps texting me about a quibi.

Quibi, I don't know how you say it, but it's some type of little exercise machine that you put under your desk at work.

Girl, you don't even ask me how I'm doing. You don't even check up on me.

Only time you call this phone is when you need something blocked.

So if you got anybody in your life that just call you with drama, only call you when they need a favor or call you when they need something.

Then block, block, block. One of my other girlfriends, I ain't got home to blacklist, but she's on Do Not Disturb because I don't want to be around nobody that I feel like,

Matter of fact, this for other friends, I'm not single and nobody out.

I don't want to be around anybody that I feel like when it comes to my friends, I'm a very big stepper.

When it comes to people that I love, I'm poor and I'm not necessarily expecting you to pour the way I pour.

But I need my friends to show up to the friendship with the same enthusiasm as me.

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