When I was going through with my breakup with my first boyfriend and I was really sad about it,

felt like he didn't care that we were breaking up and I felt so devastated, my mother said,

Vee, be so thankful that this man is not caring, this man is not chasing you because you know

deep down that that's not the right person for you. So imagine how much harder it would be for you to move

on if there was some idiot chasing after you

trying to sell you all of the dreams that you deep down no he can't actually afford

how much harder that would be on you to actually walk away it's so much easier when someone gives you all of the reasons why you

shouldn't stay by their lack of effort, by lack of actions, when they don't care, be so thankful because they're making it so much easier to move on.

And one thing that I've always believed in is that no man that's actually meant for you,

A, will get away from you and then b no man that's actually

meant for you would give you that much space to put another man in front of you and

lastly when a man steps away from you or every time you part ways

with someone that you think you love, not only doesn't make you like them a little bit less,

but when that happens to you, just think about the fact that this man is giving you the

chance to learn what it's like to live without them every time they're ghosting you

every time they go silent every time they show how much they don't care about your feelings.

They are just giving you the opportunity

to learn what it's like to live without them.

And they're also giving you the opportunity

to meet someone else while they're not around.

So be so thankful, be like, oh my gosh, thank you so much.

The Hugh cares so much about me, my future, being my soft-cural era and so on,

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