Hi, everybody. Thanks for tuning into the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber,

and today I'm going to be talking about what to do if the guy that you're dating keeps bringing up his ex

or other women who are into him.

So I'm actually recording this podcast in a podcasting studio in the Impact Hub in Santa Barbara,

which is pretty cool. Usually I actually record this podcast from home and it's always difficult

to make it completely silent. Like there's always

planes coming by or an ambulance or the dog starts snoring and there's just a bunch of noise. So

I'm hoping that the quality is really good on this today. And yeah, I'm really excited for

this episode because it's actually based on a listener question. So I'm going to read that to you now.

Hi Amber. I recently found your podcast a few months ago and I do not miss an episode. You're so

inspiring, strong, raw and realistic. Thank you. Why do some men bring up other girls that like them or have

like them or even that they have dated when

we are hanging out. I don't find it appropriate to speak about that. It makes me feel like I'm being

put straight into the friend zone. Ha ha what do you think? Thank you so much for your question.

It's always inspiring to hear from you guys because this podcast is ultimately for you. So I want to make sure that

I'm answering your questions and that it's relevant to you and that I'm helping you. So the best way for

that to happen is for you to tell me what you need and what your questions are. And there's a link in

the show notes if you do have a question that you would like me to answer on the

podcast. So let's talk about what to do if the guy that you're dating is talking about other

women, whether it be his ex or somebody who currently has a crush on him and he's like

telling you about it. So I'm going to talk about why guys do this in the

first place and then I'm also going to talk about what you should do if the guy that you're

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