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I've been with someone and recently married three years and found out last year that my spouse has not filed taxes for over 20 plus years.

Oh, geez. How bad is it?

And I'm very, very firm on this. I don't know.

Things have been hidden from me. I gave them an ultimatum last year. I said, listen,

you've got one year to clear this up to get started to reach out get a payment system going i was like

if you you talk to them they're not going to come after you they'll work with you because i've had it

happened before um so a year went by and i found out that the person he was supposedly taking his taxes

to and filed an extension with had passed away.

I had no idea this person had passed away and come to find out he then admitted he had never taken any information to this person whatsoever.

So if behavior is a language, what's he been telling you for the last year?

That he's too scared and he's putting that fear over our relationship.

That's one way to think of it.

I was thinking more him looking at you saying,

I would rather be scared and hide than to make my new wife feel safe.

Yeah.

Is there kids in this mix?

Well, there are five kids.

Thankfully, they're from a previous marriage.

So I'm not really sure how to proceed with this other than I've been researching

and trying to protect myself.

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