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The Birch Show.

We've been talking a lot about proposals on the air recently. Abby, you just helped your brother plan an epic proposal.

Help is a strong word, Kristen, for totally overhauling the proposal. He didn't want to plan.

And then we had a Burke show listener during our texting tutor. She wanted to give her friend a

heads up that I don't think your boyfriend's going to propose. Turns out he just waited to the last

second. And so in that proposal kind of, well, when you wait to the last second, didn't go

great and she kind of wants a do-over. So with all this conversation about proposals, Bert got a DM and it's a guy who's about to propose. Oh, that's so exciting. And it's, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, read it. He sounds like he has a great plan, but he's concerned in one area.

He's worried he's going to screw this up because there was something we talked about on the air that never crossed his mind.

And he doesn't know if he needs to do this.

All right.

So the DM that Burke got, you got to help me before I totally mess this up.

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