So another thing as well, I was looking for the chat like I said and someone basically said, oh, if you guys don't have like dillemas, go to Reddit and there's a, there's a like room called waiting to wed.

And it's just filled with like basically dilemmas of like people talking about waiting to

wed.

And I wanted to read one.

So this is basically the dilemma and I got it from there.

So shout out you for recommending that.

The title is he has had the ring for two years and hasn't proposed.

Suddenly I no longer want him to oh wow that's a title so my partner and i have been together nearly seven years he took me ring shopping

nearly two years ago and he purchased a ring a week later in those two years he's had many

opportunities to propose a tropical tropical vacation, a trip

back to our hometown, but nothing. I've been playing wife on a girlfriend's salary, doing everything for

this man, like cleaning, laundry, cooking, etc. Before summer, I gave him a timeline to propose before

the end of the year or else I was gone and until I had the

rink I would no longer cook his meals clean for him or do his laundry. I broke down and hired a

cleaner. He pays half although I think he should pay the full amount. He only decided the cleaner was

necessary because he's now injured with a hernia and can't stand to clean for himself anymore.

Over the summer however, I had a realization.

I realized my ring had been sitting in a drawer for two years rather than on my finger.

Two years of my friends, families and co-workers asking me,

when is he going to propose after they heard me excitingly talking about the ring shopping experience?

It's been humiliating.

Humiliating, sorry.

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