Happy Bit: You Are a Rockstar!
Vibrant Happy Women
Jen Riday
4.8 • 671 Ratings
🗓️ 25 September 2017
⏱️ 4 minutes
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Summary
Now that school is started, you might like a copy of my Kids Chore Chart: jenriday.com/chorechart.
And I share some words of gratitude and praise for ALL the amazing, good things you're doing in life. Thank you for being a rockstar!
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| 0:00.0 | Hey there, Jen here, and this is a happy bit. So the kids are back in school and that means that you as a mom |
| 0:06.6 | are probably trying to get more organized. You want your kids to get up and do what they need to do and be |
| 0:11.9 | ready for the day and then at night to help clean up a bit and do their chores so things flow smoothly. |
| 0:18.0 | And you don't want to get stuck doing everything around the house feeling like |
| 0:22.6 | the maid so we set up kids chore charts right and we try to get them motivated and more often than |
| 0:29.4 | not they fall by the wayside well for the past five years i've had my kids on a system that we've stuck |
| 0:36.5 | with and i've heard a lot of moms complaining |
| 0:39.2 | about not being able to stick with theirs. So I thought I would just share what's working for me. |
| 0:44.5 | So you can grab that. It's at genriday.com forward slash chore chart. It's instructions and a video |
| 0:52.8 | and an actual chore chart you can print explaining exactly how we |
| 0:56.6 | set it up in a way that my husband can manage it. My kids get what's going on with minimal |
| 1:02.1 | involvement from me. I'm there to praise. I'm there to give the reward. It works. The fact is we |
| 1:08.6 | humans are animals and animals thrive on rewards. Animals are way more |
| 1:14.7 | likely to perform a behavior if there is a reward afterwards. And this works for us as adults. |
| 1:20.2 | For sure, I'm way more likely to want to do something if I'm getting positivity and praise. |
| 1:25.1 | But if I'm getting criticism, I dig in my heels and I don't want to do it. |
| 1:28.9 | So we've got to shift our setup to be, you know, all about rewards and praise. |
| 1:35.1 | And some moms, you know, dig in and say, no, no, no, why should I bribe? They should just do it. |
| 1:40.2 | Well, if your kids are anything like mine, they get to a certain age and they don't just do it and you're |
| 1:45.8 | reminding and you're nagging and so i want to help you have a smoother school year so that's why |
| 1:51.3 | i created the kids chore chart so grab yours with the instructions and the video that's at gen |
| 1:56.4 | rydea.com forward slash chore chart this is our system that we've used for five years and I hope you |
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