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Girls Gotta Eat

Happily Unmarried feat. Author Eric Klinenberg

Girls Gotta Eat

Ashley Hesseltine

Relationships, Society & Culture, Dating, Comedy, Sex, 977170

4.629.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 June 2020

⏱️ 105 minutes

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Summary

We're talking with Eric Klinenberg, sociologist and author (and co-author of Modern Romance with Aziz Ansari), about the rise of living alone, why women aren't settling for long-term partners, and what life looks like when you're happily unmarried. But we're also discussing relationships -- how we choose partners (are we doing it wrong?) and what we expect from our partners (is it realistic?). Plus, we review Normal People and bring back That Took a Turn. We are also addressing race and our country's current state of affairs.

Check out Eric's website with all his books and info, and follow him on Twitter @EricKlinenberg.

Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for tour dates and merchandise.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

And so all these things coming together means that women aren't stuck in relationships that they don't want to be in

0:05.4

and women don't have to get married in order to have a sex life in order to be independent, to have an economic life

0:12.3

and that's a massive driver of social change.

0:30.7

Hi guys, welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat. Welcome back. We have a little more

0:38.6

somber tone today. We're going to get into it shortly. We're going to talk about some serious stuff with you guys

0:44.9

given what's happening in the world right now. We are going to address what's happening in our country right now.

0:52.4

We're going to speak on it. So I'll just start. I think that we're all aware what's going on right now.

1:00.2

This was all spurred by the murder of George Floyd by a police officer in Minneapolis.

1:06.4

We all know he is not the first unarmed black man or woman to be killed by a white cop and he certainly won't be the last.

1:14.9

And it goes without saying we are horrified by this. We denounce racism of all kinds.

1:23.8

And we are going to dive into race deeper in a future episode. There is so much to say.

1:30.6

And we want to have a woman of color come on and speak about race and white privilege and intersectional feminism and being an ally.

1:40.0

And also talking about race with people you have relationships with because of the end of the day.

1:43.8

This is still a podcast about relationships romantic and otherwise.

1:47.0

But today we did want to take a moment to of course like I just said denounce racism of any kind and remind white people that it is not enough to just be not racist.

1:58.0

You should be anti racist. That is not an original quote that is a variation of a quote by Angela Davis who is a political activist and educator and author.

2:05.0

So just want to make that clear. But I post a lot of stories on my own Instagram about this.

2:09.8

You can I have a highlight on it. You know we are posting resources on girls got to eat as well.

2:14.4

And we will continue to do so for me from from my from my eyes personally.

2:18.8

I think the first place to start with with all of this with white people is just remembering that

2:22.9

as a white person you can't begin to understand what it's like to be black and you don't have the right to tell black people how they should feel act protests etc.

2:30.8

Those of us that are white are born with a privilege and if you're defensive at the term white privilege then we need to start there.

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