I amla. I had a baby daddy relationship. I spent time in a relationship with a married man.

I had to learn the skills and tools required to make my relationships healthy, fulfilling, and loving.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Welcome to the R-Spot. I am Yamla, your host, your guide, your posse, as we walk through this incredible, incredible mind field.

It is a mind, am I N D field, and it's a mind, am I in field of questions, challenges, issues,

revelations.

And that field is the area of relationships.

Relationships.

We've got all kinds of relationships

that we talk about.

And today we've got a really juicy, juicy topic.

And I'm really excited about this,

and we're gonna do it a little different.

We're gonna have a conversation.

Here's what I know.

Relationships have changed,

or shall I say, people have changed, and therefore how we look at, how we approach,

how we live in relationships that has changed, because there's some things going on in the relationship

field right now that in my day when I was growing up not only would they send

you straight to hell they'd be an offense to the Lord and you would just

burn up like a crisp. Things like thruples. Things like same-sex relationship. You didn't talk about that stuff out loud and now not only are people

talking about it and doing it is on social media. Oh my goodness. But relationships have changed and I think that's because we have

changed and yet we're still trying to live in this paradigm that obviously is not working.

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