This is an IHeart podcast.

Guaranteed Human.

Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour.

Thanks so much for joining us today.

Kathy, are you so excited to be here today?

I am so excited because we have one of our favorites.

We have a very special guest returning to Golden Hour. Please welcome from season 10 of Paradise,

who unfortunately left before I got there. Hakeem. Hakeem, hi, Hakeem. You could have just said

all of when I was on Paradise with you you didn't have to say

oh he left unfortunately before i girl we know it you were only there for a minute welcome back

though we're so glad you're back on happy house yes i'm glad i'm here as well and i'm your favorite

not one of your favorite no you're my definite favorite let me just say i just before get into anything, I'm just going to give a little teaser here. Susan, while she is smiling, is brokenhearted because you've ditched her for another, apparently. We're going to get into that. No, I'm happy for you. She's appearing a lot in your photos. Yeah, I mean, what's mine is mine.

You know, I got to let everybody know.

Yeah, what's her name?

No, that's a good thing.

I heard it's Monica.

Her name is Monica. Oh, how did I know that? Where do we meet? How do we meet? Yeah, so it's actually, let's start. It's a long story. okay so she's actually a person that i dated in my past so So I met her via Hinge once upon a time.

So we dated from 2021 to 2023.

And then we had some unfortunate things happen within her family dynamic.

That's the nicest way for me to say it.

I can be very upfront if you'd like me to.

Of course we want you to be up front. Go for it. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, there was racist things that were happening in the family at the time. Yeah, it's okay. You're good. We're all good. When I came off, Bachelorette, I got like a text message with her and him with Monica and her brother in it saying like U S word, your stupid N word with the ER at the end. So it was just like, yeah, yeah, yeah. But, but, you know, it's very unfortunate. But I'm sorry, but I'm sorry, Hakeem. Who wrote those things to you? Her brother. Her name, her name is his name. I'm not going to draw his name. No, we don't need his name. I just didn't know who. Yeah, her older, yeah, her older brother. But it's funny because he put us in the chat, which we weren't talking. And then it kind of brought us together. So it was like, it was the complete opposite of what he thought. And um, two years later. Yeah. I'm, I'm happy with her. And like, I've told her like she would never have to cut off her family if, you know, because I love her for who she is. Like I would want her to have that family dynamic because family is huge to me. Who made the first move after the chat? Like, yeah, no, I mean, she,

...