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Hello, everyone, and welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour.

We are back with Kat and we are here for Part 2.

So without further ado, we're just going to get right into it because we have so much more to discuss.

Kat, you know what the crazy thing is?

I remember seeing like all the coverage

of this at the time and it seemed like you guys were like such a happy couple. Yeah, no, that's like

the internet for you. So was that him that's like I want to present this to the public even though

you were not having a good time? We had our biggest fight there. What was the fight? What was the fight? Oh, I mean, I don't, like, it's just like, it was just a lot. Like, I eventually, like, was like, okay, like, this is, like, not okay. Like, I feel like you have been gone, like, I was sitting at the chair, like, while, before the fight was going to start. And he left for an hour, I guess, to go get a drink, but like he was gone for an hour. And then I was like, okay chair like while the before the fight was going to start and he left for an hour I guess to go get a drink but like he was gone for an hour and then I was like okay like at this like I just felt so alone and like he wasn't even like trying to like take the time to make me feel comfortable in environment's clearly not mine and like that's how I move but then also when you start to see somebody from that perspective like everything is going to be heightened so I was like a little aware of that like I could be like just seeing him from that

perspective because I already felt that way but it was so not received very well and so I was just

not being spoken to very appropriately like one of the things that was said was if you want someone that's

going to be obsessed with you, that's not going to be me. And he's like saying that to me, like, I'm right here. He's right here. And I'm actually, you know what? I'm talking to take. Like, he's going to hate that I'm telling so many details, but like I actually don't care. Like, yeah he was just going on and on on like he did this when we were doing the reunion too like

i'm sure i contributed to it like i think our trigger actually don't care like yeah he was just going on and on on like he did this when we were doing

the reunion too like I'm sure I contributed to it like I think I triggered him in certain ways but like

it was never like oh she's feeling insecure like let me help her like if he was like feeling that

way like I would see my partner from that perspective at least that's what I would want And I learned to say less because then they can't

hurt you back, like use that against you. So like he would just keep going if I wouldn't say anything

and eventually would stop. And like I just felt like, so that was, I just did not say any words throughout

the entire fight. Like I was just like, he needs to apologize. Like, whatever, have your hard moment. And then I was just like he needs to apologize like

whatever have your hard moment and then I was like actually I do want someone that's obsessed with me

and like that's okay like you could like I I do like I want to be obsessed with my partner and vice versa

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