Growing Together Through Grief with Kerry and Chris Shook | Ep. 538
Awesome Marriage Podcast
Dr. Kim Kimberling
4.9 • 813 Ratings
🗓️ 20 December 2022
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Statistically, odds are not good for a couple processing grief together. Today Kerry and Chris Shook join Dr. Kim on the podcast. In this powerfully encouraging episode, they share how they handled a painful season of grief losing their grandson, Jude, who lived just one day on earth, and how they were shaped, along with their family, through the loss. Kerry and Chris are pastors and co-authors of The Gift of One Day: How to Find Hope When Life Gets Hard.
Episode highlights include:
- Does grief change us, and what does that look like?
- Seeing God at work when he doesn't seem to answer our biggest prayers
- How to handle grief when you grieve differently than your spouse does
- How thinking about "one day" shapes the grief process
We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
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- Kerry and Chris's book The Gift of One Day: How to Find Hope When Life Gets Hard tells the whole story
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast, a place for honest conversations and practical advice on how to build an awesome marriage. |
| 0:09.9 | I am your podcast producer and co-host, Lindsay Few. |
| 0:13.4 | On the show will be our host, Dr. Kim Kimberly. |
| 0:17.0 | Dr. Kim is a marriage counselor and has been married for over 50 years. |
| 0:21.8 | His passion is to help you strengthen your most intimate relationship. |
| 0:28.9 | Welcome to today's awesome marriage podcast today. |
| 0:31.3 | Chris and Carrie Shook join me on the podcast. |
| 0:33.8 | Carrie and Chris are the founding pastors of Woodlands Church in Texas and the New York Times bestselling authors. |
| 0:39.9 | Their newest book is The Gift of One Day, How to Find Hope, When Life Gets Hard. |
| 0:44.6 | In the book, they show the story of maintaining an unshakable marriage, the time of intense hardship in losing their grandson, Jude. |
| 0:51.3 | This is a powerful podcast on a very difficult subject. So let's go meet Chris and |
| 0:57.0 | Carrie now. Carrie and Chris, thank you so much for being here today on Bustle Marriage Podcast. |
| 1:02.8 | I love having you guys. Just thank you for taking time out of your busy schedules to spend |
| 1:07.2 | some time with us today. We're so glad to be here, Dr. Kim. |
| 1:11.0 | That's right. It's a joy. |
| 1:12.5 | Well, it's great to see you guys. |
| 1:14.8 | So let's kind of get in. |
| 1:15.8 | Obviously, the book, Carrie, you said that some hurt you will never get over, but you will get through them. |
| 1:21.8 | That's a big concept. |
| 1:23.0 | Unpack that for us. Well, I think that a lot of times when we're grieving, you know, I know especially for |
| 1:30.2 | men and for me, you know, you really want to get over it. You want the pain to stop. And sometimes |
| 1:38.2 | we even want our wives to get over it. And you'll never get over it. that grief will be there in some form and I think that |
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