Grief Rituals for Finding Hope and Healing with Amanda Held Opelt • X92
Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening
Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach
4.9 • 906 Ratings
🗓️ 29 July 2022
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
We will learn:
- The power of Irish keening for releasing emotions.
- How to deal with fear around loss.
- How to hold presence for grief, whether for yourself or a loved one.
There’s a huge spectrum for how people deal with grief. But it’s one of those things that I feel like we need a handbook for and we just don’t have one.
We used to gather around to support one another for all major life events. We had collective rituals that helped us feel connected. That gave space to the grieving. That kept life moving when the griever couldn’t yet handle the little things.
So what would that look like today, in the modern world? Today we’re going to explore some of the most helpful grief rituals that are worth bringing back.
Our guest is Amanda Held Opelt. She is an author, speaker, and songwriter. She has spent the last 15 years as a social worker and humanitarian aid worker. And she writes about grief and creativity, and believes in the power of community, ritual, and shared stories to heal even our deepest wounds.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Mind Love Premium, episode |
| 0:02.0 | episode is all about grief rituals for hope and healing. |
| 0:08.0 | That's the thing about a funeral, like our one remaining grief ritual is like an event, know what I mean like that which requires |
| 0:14.8 | event planning and a program and in some ways a performance it lacks an intimacy that I |
| 0:20.8 | think rituals from the past and rituals in other countries have, but a ritual to me is most powerful when it's something you do with someone else, with a group of people and it has this agreed upon kind of meaning and purpose and |
| 0:37.2 | it speaks to a communal emotion or a communal need and most grief rituals throughout history have involved like the neighbors and extended family. |
| 0:49.4 | It kind of acknowledged our wider net of communal support, whereas now we tend to grieve either |
| 0:56.4 | alone or just in our small nuclear families. |
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| 1:25.8 | Grief is arguably one of the hardest things |
| 1:28.9 | we humans have to deal with. |
| 1:30.9 | And this might sound weird, but overall life is neutral. Our emotional |
| 1:36.2 | suffering doesn't just come from life events. Our suffering comes from |
| 1:40.6 | our response to those events. the way we perceive them, and most of all, the meaning that we give them. |
| 1:47.0 | Grief is such a prime example of that because it's our response to loss. |
| 1:53.6 | We might think that it's the loss that hurts, |
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