I found as well of my wife was that on the one hand, you're told that to give them

independence and freedom and you want that. But at the same time, there's still a instinct,

I think especially for the mother to be like on hand at all times and just keep it keeping an eye

on them. Yes. Yeah, it is. It's hard because like I do. I want him to, I try not to like hover too much and I want him to like explore and see things.

But like, I'm like, oh, this is dangerous. Everything you touch, everything you touch, you seem to find everything that is dangerous. How is this happening?

They're magnets for danger. Do you know, when my first was born in 2017, I had a friend come round and he already had two and there are a few years ahead.

And he was, he walked in my house before the kids and he just said, right, can I just move this?

Can I move this?

Can I do this? Can I do this?

He said, in about six months time, you're going to have to completely redo your house because everything

that you have right in here, or the coffee tables or the kitchen counters, it's a complete

game change, isn't it?

Yes, absolutely.

All right?

And as soon as they can start to open the drawers and, you know, grabbing everything on themselves.

And yeah.

Yeah, we're expecting our third in December.

Oh, exciting.

Yeah, yeah.

And it's, it's really true.

Like you see these like pictures and friends tell you.

I've got a lot of kids with three with, sorry, friends with three kids.

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