Hi everyone, I'm Madu back in Ola. Welcome to Radio Headspace and to Monday morning.

I'll be guest hosting Radio Headspace this week and I'm so happy to be here.

I'm a professor at Columbia Business School, the host of the Ted Business Podcast, and I'm also a stress researcher.

So with that in mind, this week is all about rethinking the way that stress affects us and how we can work with it to actually improve our professional lives.

Today, we're going to talk about how some stress is actually good and I know realizing and embracing that is easier said than done.

So I'm going to share some ways to shift your perspective about stress so you can respond to it in a way that works for you.

I think in general as humans, we tend to anchor on the negative stuff that happens to us. It looms larger.

So it's very easy in our culture to think that stress is bad because we can all think about times where we were stressed and the outcome might not have been as ideal as we would have liked.

You know, a time when maybe you were supposed to do something like give us speech and you froze.

And so then each time you think about stress, you think I'm going to freeze. I'm going to freeze when that's not always the case because there are situations where we've all been under stress and we've thrived.

I study stress partially because I experienced stress and wanted to learn how to be present with my stress in a way that was more helpful.

One of the things that stresses me out a lot is not having time to be prepared for something.

You know, busy schedule so much going on that I always feel like I get somewhere and I'm like, what do I have to do now or whatever.

But I often find that sometimes in that lack of preparedness, things come to my mind quicker.

The energy that I need is there because I'm kind of under this pressure of, wait a minute, do I know what I'm going to say? Am I going to say it right? Am I going to do this right? Is it okay?

So I've learned that, wow, sometimes some of my best moments happen when I'm under stress.

And in some ways that means that the stress was good for me because it allowed me to rise to the occasion.

Sometimes that tight deadline is actually helpful because you can quickly and more efficiently and more effectively do what you need to do once you're under that pressure.

So when we get those feelings that were so overwhelmed, we need to first acknowledge that we're stressed.

Because sometimes we're feeling that way and you think, are you stressed or someone asked you are you stressed and you're like, no, I'm not stressed.

You actually are. So the first step is just acknowledging it. And then the next step is welcoming it partially because we are stressed because there's something we care about.

So you're feeling stressed, you're like, okay, I am stressed. All right, why am I stressed? What is it? Why do I care about this thing?

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