All right, today's podcast, Gary and I have set a little bit of a challenge, and that is we're going to show you all how to get out there and flirt in under 10 minutes.

And this podcast is specifically for those women who are over 40, if you're 40s, 50, 50, 60s, 70s, and beyond.

We can do this in 10 minutes, Gary. What do you think?

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men,

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship,

we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else,

backed by science, psychology, and our own personal experiences.

Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolche, and professional dating coach and founder of Love

Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head

relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

I love it. I love it. I love it. Flooding is a skill and people always think like, oh, I'm born a flirt or not. It's a skill. You can learn it. And not only can you learn it, you can learn it in under 10 minutes. And so today, we are talking about flirting specifically over 40. What makes it over 40? Because we're going to keep it classy out there, ladies. We're going to be dignified. We're at guys we're not doing giggly cutesy stuff it's not all about physicality it's not about

being sexual or basing this all in physical looks this is not a cosmo article where it's like

wear the specific shade of lipstick to drive him wild or how to show just enough bra strap to be flirty. It's none of that stuff. Like everything we emphasize on this podcast, we're going to be talking about all this through the lens of being high character. Exactly. And we specialize in working with women over 40 because, frankly, a lot of our clients, they're a little bit rusty in this department,

whether you're post-divorce or a widow or it's just been a while. The reality is that whether

you're over 40 or you're under 40, most people are really bad at flirting, right Gary?

Like really bad. The research shows that three out of four times, in other words, 75% in the time, people are flirting

with you.

You just have no idea.

So you're only detecting flirting accurately one out of four times, 25% of times, and this

isn't going to surprise any of you, but guys are even worse at this than women.

They're getting it even less than 25%, specifically 18%. Now, why is everyone so bad at this? Well, because we're all just a little too chicken. We're a little too subtle. And being subtle will sink you. We want clarity. We want to know if the other person's interested. So if you're like flirting but only like kind of sort of, that's not going to work

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