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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Give Him 5 Extra Seconds to Get Your Number

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2016

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

(Sorry, guys, but I’ve got to give away one of our biggest secrets…) Ladies: Did you know that most times men walk away without getting your number because our interaction with you ended just 5 seconds too soon? Well, today I’m going to give you 3 simple tricks you can use to extend your conversation with a guy just long enough for him to gather the courage to ask you out. Sneaky? Kind of. But it may just mean the difference between “it was nice talking to you,” and “can I take you to dinner on Friday?” So help us out, ok?

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Love Life, I'm Matthew Hussie. Now do you ever feel like you're stuck in a rut?

0:08.0

We all do from time to time. The problem is just going through the motions,

0:13.0

cuts off our ability to grow and increase our happiness in life.

0:17.0

Now what would happen if you actually began living each and every day with purpose?

0:22.0

Let me tell you, it is possible to transform your life from ordinary to extraordinary

0:27.0

and it doesn't have to take months or years but just a matter of days.

0:32.0

Stick with me till the end of the show and I'll tell you exactly how to do it.

0:39.0

I realized that so many guys don't ask for a woman's number

0:46.0

because the interaction stopped five seconds short and they walk away,

0:51.0

she walks away maybe and they've lost it and they don't know how to go and reclaim it.

0:57.0

So ladies, this is a message for you.

1:00.0

There is a way you can make it easier for men and that's just to prolong the interaction by five more seconds.

1:09.0

I have a couple of ways for you to do that.

1:12.0

The first one is if you're in a situation where it's appropriate for this and this happened to me recently.

1:19.0

Someone can just say, you could just say to the guy, I can walk you out, it's no problem.

1:26.0

Let's say you're in a building and his car is downstairs, you say, I can walk you out.

1:30.0

Go downstairs with him and walk him out.

1:33.0

I'm not saying you walk five streets to his car or anything but walk him out of the building.

1:37.0

You give him that little extra time to decide what he's going to do and how he's going to do it.

1:42.0

So I can walk you out and then walk with him out.

1:44.0

The second one is the extra question.

1:47.0

Just ask one more question than you were going to.

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