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Girls Night with Stephanie May Wilson

Girls Night #310: When You've Lost Touch with Who You Are... (how to get to know yourself again)

Girls Night with Stephanie May Wilson

Stephanie May Wilson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Mental Health

4.94K Ratings

🗓️ 13 October 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever woken up one day and thought, “I don’t even know who I am anymore?” Maybe it’s after motherhood, a breakup, a big move, burnout, or even after finally reaching a goal you worked so hard for — and suddenly realizing it doesn’t feel the way you thought it would. Somewhere along the way, between the to-do lists and expectations, you lost touch with the person underneath it all. In this episode, we’re talking about how to find your way back. 💛 We’ll talk about: ✨ Why we lose touch with ourselves (and why it’s not a failure — it’s human) ✨ How to start hearing your own voice again ✨ Practical ways to rediscover what you love, need, and value in this season ✨ How to rebuild a life that feels like peace on the inside, not just success on the outside This isn’t a “self-care” conversation — it’s a coming home to yourself conversation. If you’ve been on autopilot, feeling disconnected from who you are, this episode will help you start to find your way back — gently, honestly, one small step at a time. So grab a cozy drink and join me — let’s reintroduce you to you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hi friends. Welcome to Girls' Night. The other day I was talking on the phone to a friend, a dear friend that I've known for years, and she said something that's been echoing in my mind ever since. She said, Steph, I've spent the last few years with my head down, just doing the next right thing, work, kids, house, family,

0:22.2

trying to hold everything together, keeping everyone fed, keeping the calendar straight,

0:26.8

keeping life moving. And now, for the first time in years, things have slowed down just a little,

0:32.4

and I feel so strange. I keep catching myself thinking, wait, what do I like to do? What even makes me happy

0:40.7

anymore? What do I need? Who am I now that my whole life isn't in crisis mode? And I just stood there

0:47.4

in the kitchen as I was talking to her holding my coffee, staring out the window thinking,

0:51.0

yep, I've been there.

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1:29.8

Now, maybe your story doesn't look exactly like hers, but I bet you've had a version of that moment too.

1:35.6

That moment when life quiets down just enough for you to look around and think, wait, who even am I right now?

1:42.5

For me, the first time that that happened was after a breakup.

1:46.3

I had built my whole world around this person, our relationship, his friends, our routines.

1:51.6

I had so completely intertwined myself with his world that when we broke up, I didn't just lose a boyfriend.

1:57.7

I lost my whole context.

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