Gifts That Suck (In A Good Way)

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 December 2020

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

‘Tis the season of giving but what if you don’t know how to receive? Receiving can be difficult for many, especially with gifts of oral pleasure. If you have trouble relaxing while someone goes down on you, you’re not alone. To help ease any “receiving anxiety,” I walk you through specific steps you can take to fully enjoy all the gifts coming down your chimney tonight.

We also talk to a caller who is more experienced than her partner. Finally, we go over some of the best gifts that our callers have ever received. Surprisingly, they aren’t all pleasure related.

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0:00.0	This is what you say. To evolve a owner if you're going down on her you say babe I'm not going anywhere.
0:13.4	I'm about to settle in and I'm going to stay here all night.
0:17.4	Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex.
0:24.0	Eyes that mark our sacred institutions.
0:27.0	Bet through eyes they call them in a fight on day.
0:31.0	You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:41.0	Alright the holidays are in full swing and for many that means giving and receiving gifts.
0:50.0	But hey let's talk about giving and receiving gifts of pleasure.
0:55.0	So when I say that to you what do you think about giving someone pleasure.
0:59.0	Maybe you're thinking about like oral. It's one of my favorites.
1:02.0	But there's other ways to please your partner. You can give them a massage, a foot rub.
1:07.0	You can tease them, play with their nipples, maybe kiss their neck, whispering in their ear.
1:13.0	Our ear is also in a Roger Nassau. You can cuddle. I mean you know the list goes on and on.
1:18.0	So that's what we're talking about in today's episode how to give and receive pleasure because I know some of us struggle with receiving as well.
1:25.0	And if you've ever done this performative receiving.
1:28.0	It's when you act like you're enjoying something but you're really not.
1:32.0	Many of us are guilty of this. Especially those of us with vulvas.
1:37.0	But don't you think we all deserve to authentically receive.
1:41.0	I think we should start now. Hopefully you'll be inspired by this episode.
1:45.0	Alright, intentions with Emily. Let's set off by setting intention because I feel when we do that you really anchor into whatever it is you want to learn.
1:53.0	It could be I want some ways to learn how to relax and receive pleasure from my partner.
1:59.0	Well my intention is to help you have the most pleasurable holiday season you've ever had.
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