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This is the Perfect Kemp podcast. Thank you so much for joining us.

I am so happy to be sitting next to Ebo Brewer today.

And, um, okay, so Ebo, I just love talking with you.

So I just was like, we're gonna just sit and talk because you're fucking so damn funny.

Ah, thank you. I appreciate that. I'm a comedian. He tells jokes. Yes. That's how we met. Yes. We met in, really just in a car, right? In a car. We met in a car. Which happens a lot. We get two comics, get on a gig together. And we get in a car. And then I go, I hope this one doesn't rape me. Yes, and I don't rape. No, you don't. No, I'm not rapy at all. No. You told me straight up. When we got in the car, you're like, I won't rape you. Yeah. Yeah, you got to do that. I'm a large black man. That's my disclaimer. I will not... Hello, my name is Ebo. I will not rape you. How is your day going? But then I'm like, I might rape you. No, I'm... All good. A rapist come in all shapes and sizes. Yeah, I mean, it'd be hard to rape me because then I have to not be into it. Because it's not rape. If like, you're like, hey, go ahead, hop on, hop on. You kind of, well, you didn't, you disappeared for a little while. You and I did this a gig. Mm-hmm. Super cool. We're hanging, we're talking, laughing.

And then Ebo's gone.

Poof.

Disappeared for a little while.

And then you turned back up a couple months ago.

We did another gig together, which was such a treat.

It was for homeless vets.

And then I heard where you've been for the past few months.

And I was just like, holy fuck, Ebo.

You've been on a ride this year.

Yeah, yeah.

It's, well, I mean, it's been a ride that's been lasting, you know, a couple.

But a few years I've been with this ride, which is the balance of my personal life and my comedy.

And while comedy's been going great, I've been doing good, my personal life, things went to shambles.

I had a lot of things going on.

Do you feel like in life, one thing that I do a lot of reflecting on is that you, it's really hard to have everything in your life at any one given time.

I feel like if you're in it, if you have a great relationship, like, and you're totally into somebody and they're into you and you're just on cloud nine, some other part of your life is completely falling apart.

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