Getting in the Mood
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 4 February 2017
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
About this episode
How can we help ourselves be interested—and ready—for sex?
- What are some of the challenges women face when it comes to getting in the mood?
- What does the bible have to say about getting ready for sex?
- What are some things we can actually do to help ourselves look forward to sex?
From the Bible
What does God have to say about getting in the mood? One biblical wife we know well is the woman in the Song of Solomon. One thing she does is describe--in detail--the physical attributes of her husband.
My lover is dark and dazzling, better than ten thousand others!
His head is finest gold, his wavy hair is black as a raven.
His eyes sparkle like doves beside springs of water;
they are set like jewels washed in milk.
His cheeks are like gardens of spices giving off fragrance.
His lips are like lilies, perfumed with myrrh.
His arms are like rounded bars of gold, set with beryl.
His body is like bright ivory, glowing with lapis lazuli.
His legs are like marble pillars set in sockets of finest gold.
His posture is stately, like the noble cedars of Lebanon.
His mouth is sweetness itself; he is desirable in every way.
Such, O women of Jerusalem, is my lover, my friend.
Song of Solomon 5:10-16 {NLT}
Resources
Calm.Healthy.Sexy: 5 Ways to Feel Sexier This Year
The Forgiven Wife: 6 Ways to Nurture Your Sexual Desire
The Forgiven Wife: Are You in the Mood for Sex?
OysterBed 7: 1 Simple Thing to Turn on Sexual Arousal and Intensify Orgasm
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:12.3 | We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:15.8 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage? |
| 0:20.1 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:22.9 | I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife. |
| 0:25.3 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:28.0 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. |
| 0:35.9 | Today we'll be talking about getting in the mood with practical ideas and how we can help |
| 0:40.2 | ourselves be interested and ready for sex. |
| 0:43.6 | You know, I always thought there was something wrong with me. |
| 0:46.1 | My husband always seemed ready for sex no matter what, and I just wanted to transition. |
| 0:52.2 | You know, he would say, do you want to have sex? And I would say, well, no, I'm in the middle of, you know, scrubbing the cat puke or finishing |
| 0:58.0 | up my Facebook game or whatever. |
| 1:01.0 | I just needed some help getting from whatever I was doing into in the mood. |
| 1:06.0 | And turns out I'm not the only one who needs some transition time. So what about you all? And why is that |
| 1:14.1 | that so many of us aren't just automatically ready for sex like our husbands often are? |
| 1:20.1 | Well, I think it's because our biggest sexual organ is between our ears, that's two pounds |
| 1:26.6 | between our ears. And it's just harder to fire |
| 1:31.2 | us up. Men are, men have a less complicated system. I think it's also about focus too. Like, |
| 1:39.1 | I think that bent to be focused on rights right in front of them and so I can do that I can kind of switch |
| 1:45.4 | but I have to have that mental place it's like if I have it scheduled I know it's coming |
| 1:49.9 | or if I say okay I just have to clean and then this and then this and I tell myself it's |
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