Get To A Happy Place First To Cure Loneliness

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 29 September 2021

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Why you should get to a happy place first to enjoy your time alone in order to cure loneliness.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.
0:04.0	And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be get to a happy place first to cure loneliness.
0:12.0	So I've got an email this particular guy.
0:14.0	He says he's been following my work for about a year and he's on the sixth read of 3% man and he's he says he's fearful that because he
0:27.1	recognizes he's not in a very happy place right now he's going to therapy he's working on
0:31.6	himself he's in great shape but he says in the past when he's attracted women into his life, he wasn't ready,
0:39.7	and then he acted needy and basically overpursued and chased them right out of his life
0:44.6	to the point where they wanted nothing to do with him.
0:48.0	And so he's looking at the work that he's got to do on himself and where he is emotionally and
0:54.0	mentally. And he knows he's really kind of not
0:56.7	ready, but obviously he's lonely and he doesn't want to wait. And so he's like, well, what can I do?
1:05.4	And so this brings up a really great point when it comes to if you're looking to be in a relationship, you've got to get to a place
1:13.5	where you're happy being by yourself first versus saying, okay, well, and I get the perfect person
1:22.5	in my life or the perfect job or get that dream car I've always wanted or dream house, whatever
1:26.7	happens to be,
1:28.5	then I'm going to be happy.
1:35.1	And the reality is living that way, happiness becomes a moving target and it becomes dependent on a certain set of circumstances.
1:37.8	And so you literally create a story that you tell yourself, well, I'm not happy right now,
1:42.0	and I can't be happy until I have this thing or this person or this career or this job or that promotion or that body or I live in a certain city or whatever happens to be or a certain amount of money in the bank.
1:54.2	You have to focus on getting to a place where you can enjoy where you are and enjoy your journey.
2:01.4	Because if you're not happy being by yourself, you're not going to be really good company
2:05.1	for somebody else, especially once you realize when you spend enough time with them
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