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The Way Out Is In

Generosity Beyond Limits (Episode #42)

The Way Out Is In

Plum Village

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Buddhism, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 8 December 2022

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to episode 42 of The Way Out Is In: The Zen Art of Living, a podcast series mirroring Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh’s deep teachings of Buddhist philosophy: a simple yet profound methodology for dealing with our suffering, and for creating more happiness and joy in our lives.This time, the presenters – Zen Buddhist monk Brother Phap Huu and journalist Jo Confino – discuss generosity. Together, they consider how to cultivate generosity in our ways of thinking, speaking, and acting, by looking at Buddhist teachings, Plum Village mindfulness trainings, and Thich Nhat Hanh’s applied wisdom.  And: what’s the best way to practice generosity? Does generosity come from intimacy or from proximity? What is nondiscriminatory generosity? Can we feel generosity for all the elements making up the Earth? Brother Phap Huu shares the general meaning and importance of generosity in Buddhism, and in the Plum Village tradition in particular, and addresses gratitude for the simple things in life; the practice of non-self; generosity as a perpetual mindfulness training; generosity as presence; ever-growing love and compassion; mastering the practice of the smile; and community living as a lesson in generosity.  Jo shares a recent show of generosity from listeners of the podcast, and on the subjects of generosity in an individualistic culture; fake generosity; not knowing how to receive generosity; unconscious behaviors in parents; and connection and intimacy as essential aspects of generosity. The episode ends with a short meditation on generosity guided by Brother Phap Huu.  Co-produced by the Plum Village App:https://plumvillage.app/ And Global Optimism:https://globaloptimism.com/  With support from the Thich Nhat Hanh Foundation:https://thichnhathanhfoundation.org/  List of resources  Dharma Talks: ‘Manas Consciousness, Teachings on Buddhist Psychology Retreat, 1997’https://plumvillage.org/library/dharma-talks/manas-consciousness-thich-nhat-hanh-teachings-on-buddhist-psychology-retreat-1997/  Dharma Talks: ‘The Face of Manas Revealed: Understanding a Hidden Aspect of Our Consciousness’https://plumvillage.org/library/dharma-talks/live-dharma-talk-by-sister-tue-nghiem-2020-11-29-plum-village/‘The Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings’https://plumvillage.org/mindfulness/the-14-mindfulness-trainings/Bhikkhuhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bhikkhu Old Path White Clouds: Walking in the Footsteps of the Buddhahttps://plumvillage.org/books/1987-duong-xua-may-trang-old-path-white-clouds/  Six Paramitas: Practices to Cross to the Other Shore (short teaching video by Thich Nhat Hanh)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8dEkNM7SA0 Mahayana Buddhismhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MahayanaEmma Thompsonhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emma_ThompsonThe Way Out Is In: ‘Slow Down, Rest, and Heal: The Spirit of the Rains Retreat (Episode #7)’https://plumvillage.org/podcast/slow-down-rest-and-heal-the-spirit-of-the-rains-retreat/‘The Five Mindfulness Trainings’https://plumvillage.org/mindfulness/the-5-mindfulness-trainings/  Quotes “No self means that we cannot exist by ourselves. If we remove all of the elements that are present in us, from the most fundamental – our parents, then our ancestors, then our spiritual ancestors, and then our conditions of life, which are food, sunshine, the blue sky, the rain, the air that we breathe – [then we see that] everything that is present supports us.” “Manas is a layer in our consciousness which allows us to want to grasp, want to move on, and want to do, and is always looking for something outside of itself, never feeling fulfilled. And it creates many, many habits. Manas forgets that we cannot exist by ourselves. And it forgets that we have to rely on others.”  “In the practice of Buddhism, a true practitioner would actually become more caring for others, more caring for our environment, more caring for even the sim

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0:00.0

Dear friends, welcome back to this latest episode of the podcast series The Way Out

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is In.

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The Way Out is In. I am Joe Konfino working at the intersection of personal transformation and systems evolution

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and I am Brother Fabu, a Zen Buddhist monk in the tradition of Plum Village, a student of Zen master Technich Han.

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And brother, today we're going to be talking about generosity and how to cultivate it in our ways of thinking, speaking and acting. out his skin. Hello everyone. I am Joe Confino and I am Brother Fabu.

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I'm Brother Fabu we're going to talk today about generosity and and if you remember when we were discussing what should we talk about today and what

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came immediately to my mind was generosity and the reason is that I recently came back with my wife. We were in New York for five weeks and before we went I put a photograph on Instagram just saying I'm really excited to be coming back to New York.

1:33.0

And out of the blue I received a direct message from a woman in New York who I don't know,

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saying, I love your podcast so much that I want to invite you and your wife to come and stay in our

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apartment when you're New York. And as I said, never met her, complete trust we arrived, she put us up for two weeks, and during that we got

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COVID and she attended to us so beautifully to the extent that every morning she would send up by text a menu of the morning so we could

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have scrambled eggs with toast, we could have a super green smoothie, we could have this or that. And at the end when we left I said,

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you've been a real teacher for me about generosity, because you don't know me you had to offer real trust you've been

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super generous and and I don't think I would have done the same.

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And so it made me start to question what actually is generosity and if I couldn't be like her with that type of generous,

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where am I generous? and what is the purpose of

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generosity what what can it do for us so anyway that's that was the sort of

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genesis of the thought for doing this podcast but so as usual brother I'm going to come straight to you to say what can you give us a sense of what what is the meaning and importance of generosity in Buddhism in general but also in the Plum Village tradition.

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First of all, thank you, dear friend in New York for taking care of Joe and Pa's

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because when they came back to Plum Village, they are happy and fresh.

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And we are continuing this podcast.

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Thanks to all the generous, thanks to all of the generosity of all of you listeners and supporter of this

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