Hello, my coffee don't, my sweet ass, brilliant, emotional, coffee don't, welcome to another

episode of Confidently and Secure the Podcast where we are absolutely sure we don't know

everything.

I am your host, Kelsey Dera, and I'm so excited for this week's guest that how do I describe

how we met?

You are a friend of my best friend, who's also coming over the second we stop recording

to do a video with me, and then the second he stops recording that video with me, he's

going to a movie with you, that friend is Zach Newy Towers, I'm so excited to introduce

this week's guest, clinical psychologist J.D. Barton!

Hello, I love that, and if we need an audience when we've got just rocket applause,

Yes, brilliant, talent over here, Zach Newy Towers is our mutual, who I feel like what

a mutual to have in common, Zach everyone knows, he's been on the podcast a million times,

co-host of Dating No Filter, host of his own podcast, Good Morning Sodomites, which I want

to start the podcast by talking about his podcast that you are on, because oh my god, I thought

I was going to have this like very specific laid out questions about what it's like to

be a therapist, a young, good looking therapist in today's society, what the queer experience

is like is that they're, and then I started listening to Zach's podcast where you were

a guest this morning, and I think the title was called Dix Everywhere, and the first thing

I learned about is, were you on who wants to be a millionaire?

I was, yeah, I was on, I was on who wants to be a millionaire in the middle of

COVID, like deep, deep COVID times, like, yeah, no audience, who wants to be a millionaire,

don't shake Jimmy Kimmel's hand, who wants to be a millionaire, not because Jimmy Kimmel

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