Gaslighting Questions (2021 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 26 September 2024
⏱️ 91 minutes
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September 8, 2021
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Deservant listeners, just me today. I thought I would answer your questions about gas lighting. A number of you submitted questions about gas lighting. |
| 0:09.0 | We did some episodes about it in the past, so if you want those full deep dives I would |
| 0:14.8 | listen to those first you can go to the search bar and search for gas lighting |
| 0:19.4 | and find those other episodes. And you can also go to our website and go to the episode list and search for |
| 0:24.4 | a gas lighting. So first let's review the definition of gas lighting. This is a |
| 0:30.0 | term that has been in psychology and psychotherapy and particularly the field of intimate partner violence or domestic violence for |
| 0:37.0 | for centuries for decades. |
| 0:41.0 | So it's a term that I've been familiar with for 25 years and has only been recently |
| 0:48.0 | used in pop culture over the past, I would say, in earnest in the past five years. and every time I would hear it being used in the lay public I thought I don't think they understand what gas lighting means because I don't think that's a I don't think it applies. |
| 1:02.0 | So let me provide you after reading many |
| 1:04.8 | articles and thinking about it myself. This is a compilation of several different |
| 1:11.0 | definitions. To purposely manipulate someone by |
| 1:15.6 | psychological means to lack confidence in their own memory perception, judgment, |
| 1:20.6 | for example right from wrong, or sanity. |
| 1:24.0 | Often with the purpose of controlling the victim |
| 1:27.0 | to question themselves in general, not just one issue, |
| 1:30.2 | and it can either be successful or unsuccessful. |
| 1:33.0 | So let me, you know, drill down in this a little bit. |
| 1:36.8 | So to purposely manipulate someone, |
| 1:39.9 | to Gaslight in the clinical literature is usually in an abusive relationship and it is |
| 1:46.7 | to purposely manipulate the victim. The gas lighter knows I am going to try to screw with this person's mind |
| 1:56.0 | because if they question their own reality, then I will have more control over them. |
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