The virtue looks on people are just better at keeping secrets than other people in this case keeping your marriage secret

From your parents for two years or over a year I should say

Is herculean to me like how does that not come up?

Oh, how does somebody not slip yeah slip up and somehow some way so in this email

She knows that she has to tell her parents now

That she's been married for over a year and she thinks they're gonna freak out and they probably will look if you have something going on in your life

You want to share it with us hit us up at the bird show.com Kristen has the email

Bert show I've been listening to you guys for so many years and you always have such great theories and strategies on helping people tell someone

Something or ask someone something

I'm in a bit of an urgent situation. That is a result of my procrastination and being honest. I think we've all experienced that at one point in time right?

procrastination and being honest

Okay, when you need to come clean about something you need to talk to somebody about something

You just keep kicking the can down the road and then before you know what you kicked it so far down the road

You're like yeah, this is gonna blow up in my face. You make a million excuses. Why will Tuesday?

Yeah, it's her sister's birthday. I don't want to ruin that day

Thursday that's Canadian boxing day. Yeah, and I think she's one 16th Canadian

So I don't want to ruin that day for and you just keep making excuses and before you know it

Then you start thinking it's not even a big deal. I'm just gonna let it go

Yeah, you know that for me that was like telling my parents that I had dropped out of college

When I was taking my semester off

I just they didn't know for like three quarters of the semester

I just kept dropping classes till there was only one class left and I couldn't drop anymore

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