The Bird Show.

Talking to Tammy here, and this dude just didn't want to go out with her again. She was too chatty. She didn't pay attention to what he was saying, that he had to get up early, and she kept him out late. So he just didn't want a second date. You know, so what does he do? He doesn't text her back. He doesn't call her back, and it's just assumed that there's not going to be a second date. so the question really is

is that the way you do it is that the way you He doesn't call her back, and it's just assumed that there's not going to be a second date.

So the question really is, is that the way you do it?

Is that the way you handle it?

The most appropriate way is just letting it go?

Or is there something you could say to make the other person know that, look, it's just not here.

This is not going to work here.

But do it politely to where you don't come off looking like, like all nasty.

It's just hard to say to someone.

Yeah.

Isn't it?

I mean, I don't know.

I don't know the words to use to politely decline a second date.

There's the brush off, right?

Well, where you just don't, where you ignore them.

Right.

But if you're going to stop that you have to come up

with one line that ends it saving their feelings but protecting you from having to avoid that person

in the future hey Tracy okay so here's my beef it's one thing it's like and I'm going to preface

I'm married now and whatnot but I lived in New York for a while so I actually did the sex of the city kind of thing, and I dated quite a bit. And it got to the point where if I spent all my time going, why never did I get a second date or why didn't I get a third date, you know, it's a waste of time. It's just, you know, it's a whole, like, if he's really not that into you kind of thing, there's some truth to that. And I do believe that honesty is the best policy.

And it's not that into you kind of thing there's some truth to that and I do believe that honesty is the best policy and it's not that you say oh look sorry no I'm not going to call you but as women we need to get the hint that if we don't get the call back or if we don't get a text it's like move on it's not like there's not 50 million other men out there that might be your perfect match because when we sit there and want all this closure and stuff to the degree, it makes it look like stocker women. It gives women a further bad name that, you know, we can't be strong,

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